What is(was) your professional/stage/working name?
Nora Crush
What city(ies) do you work in now (if you’re still working), or did you work in (if no longer working in the sex industry)?
I’ve worked all over Colorado.
How old are you now?
22
At what age did you engage in your first professional sexual experience?
19
Describe your first professional sexual experience, including what happened, how you felt, what you were thinking, how you felt afterward.
I was TOTALLY broke while in school. I had done the phone sex thing, but found it totally boring and vanilla. However on one particular call a man told me about his love of call girls and I asked (naively) where he found them. He told me Craigslist, of course. After my two and a half hour work day I hopped on my computer, typed in Craigslist dot com and I was hooked. This was before Craigslist started charging to post in the erotic services section, so loads of people could post whatever they wanted for free.
There was one ad that said “Watch me get off $$$$”. I answered it and set up a time to meet. I was really nervous, but I put on my best idea of what I should wear, hopped in my Mustang and went to this guys house. He was a middle aged, short, sweet looking man. Totally average looking except for an eyebrow ring. He hugged me and led me upstairs into the bedroom. From there he handed me a pack of Virginia Slims, told me to smoke them and blow the smoke onto his naked body. He’d fashioned a bench out of big tupperware containers and placed lots of towels on top. He began straddling the contraption, pressed play on the remote to continue viewing the porn on the TV and pulled another tupperware container to himself. In this one he had multiple butt plugs of every style, color and size. The first was a large pyramid style. He dipped it into a tub of Vaseline and placed it under his ass, sat down and up it went. I sat there amazed, feeling like I was at some perverted magic show. It just disappeared! I was amazed!
I continually smoked, obeying his orders and blowing it on him. After about ninety seconds he removed the plug and replaced it with a larger one with two balls on either end. Slurp! It went up there again and I was shocked once more. I couldn’t believe there was so much room in his ass! But that wasn’t all! I was in for a huge surprise when he again removed that one and replaced it with an even BIGGER one! He immediately came while staring at me.
I was surprised at how comfortable I felt with the whole thing. He smiled and nodded to the dresser in the room which had eighty dollars in twenties lying on top. He put on a robe, told me to grab the money and walked me out. I practically skipped to my car, drove home and took my roommate out to dinner.
At what age did you entertain the first (serious) thoughts of going into sex work?
Really since I was a little girl. I’ve always had a high sex drive and I remember thinking about being a sex worker very early on.
What made you decide to enter the line of work you’re in?
Mostly being broke, however I’ve never enjoyed the idea of working a plain, vanilla job. In fact the longest “regular” job I’ve ever held was for two weeks. It’s just not my thing. Not exciting enough.
What do you enjoy most about your work?
The money of course! Also, meeting new people, being worshipped, feeling very important, being creative enough to be able to do this job, the self confidence it’s brought me, and the excitement.
What do you like the least about your work?
It can be scary to meet a complete stranger in a private setting. I wish I had my own dungeon, but that will have to wait. Sometimes people’s idea of what is sexy is revolting to me, so I have to have concrete boundaries.
Does your family know what you do? If so, what do they think?
My entire immediate family knows what I do, are very supportive, curious to know about my line of work and encourage me to do what makes me happy. I’ve got the most open minded family a girl could want. I guess it helps that they’re all artists as well. I’m very lucky.
Do you have a spouse, partner or significant other, and if so, do they know about what you do? If so, what do they think?
I have a boyfriend whom I live with and he’s fine with it. There were some times in the beginning of our relationship where he was if’y about it, but I explained to him how non sexual it was. At least for me. The men I deal with aren’t interested in fucking me. They’re turned on by me, yes, however it’s more about NOT having me that turns them on.
How much longer do you think you’ll do what you’re doing now, and what are your plans for when you quit? If you’ve already left, what made you decide to leave and what did you decide to do for work when you left?
I don’t know yet. Part of me wants to expand my brand, however I’m not sure I want to be doing this when I’m fifty or sixty. I have a hard time making up my mind about it, but I know how important it is to market ones looks while they’re young and I don’t want to waste my youth. Plus I find it satisfying to be fulfilling such a deep need in my clients.
Describe your educational background.
I finished high school, went to college for a few years, got bored, went to beauty school, got bored. Formal education isn’t really appealing to me. I’d rather learn from experience in the real world.
If you had to go back and tell your younger self (mid to late teens) that you’d be doing what you’re doing now (assuming you’re still working in the sex industry), what do you think your younger self would say about it?
Really? That’s SO cool!
What advice would you give someone who was looking to get into your line of sex work?
Don’t be a pussy and try it! If it’s not for you that’s fine, but give it a go.
Nora’s Professional Site: Lady Crush (Will be up on/about May 1st)
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I’m impressed about how simple it is to respond to men’s out of the ordinary sexual needs. But I do worry–for such a nice, open person as you seem to be–that there may be dangerous situations, knowing, as a man, the capacity for aggression that exists so much in our patriarchal culture. Anyway, best of luck and thanks for sharing!