What is(was) your professional/stage/working name?
I don’t want to give my working name, but I’ll give my internet nickname: Sinamore.
What city(ies) do you work in now (if you’re still working), or did you work in (if no longer working in the sex industry)?
I work in Germany
How old are you now?
22
At what age did you engage in your first professional sexual experience?
21
Describe your first professional sexual experience, including what happened, how you felt, what you were thinking, how you felt afterward.
The first time a client booked me, I was so nervous I almost had to throw up. He came to my work apartment (provided by the escort agency) and had asked that I should dress like a secretary. When I opened the door, a nice-looking man not much older than me stood there. I had no idea how to act and accidentally introduced myself with my real name and babbled something stupid. However, soon the nervousness faded since we really clicked personally.
We turned out to have matching interests, so we talked very much, also about personal things like childhood memories. The sex wasn’t worth mentioning, he came really fast and didn’t touch me in any pleasurable way aside from stroking my back. He had booked me for one hour but when the time was up we were in the middle of a discussion, so he paid for one more hour. He asked me if we could meet in a non-business way but I had to decline since I don’t give personal data to clients (aside from the accident). He understood it and left after another hour. My first professional sex experience was a very good one that left me filled with euphoria.
At what age did you entertain the first (serious) thoughts of going into sex work?
19
What made you decide to enter the line of work you’re in?
I have always been fascinated by the Industry, but never thought about entering it myself. One day I just realized out of the blue it could be a very interesting and lucrative experience for me, so I researched about it and after having thought about it for some time I contacted an escort Agency.
What do you enjoy most about your work?
Having interesting sexual and human experiences and of course also the money.
What do you like the least about your work?
The risk of social disadvantage, stigma, especially the assumption that you’re a nympho or otherwise psychologically disabled, and the risk of meeting clients you don’t like or who even could assault you (even if that’s never happened to me)
Does your family know what you do? If so, what do they think?
My sister knows. She thinks it’s interesting, I can talk with her about everything work-related. My boyfriend and two of my friends also know, they’re equally supportive. My mother knows that I have an open relationship and sex with other people than my boyfriend, but not that I do it for money. She says the most important thing for her is that I’m happy, and if I’m happy with what I do she is happy for me. But I think she would be very concerned if she knew the whole truth, which is why I don’t tell her even if I’d sometimes like to. I don’t want her to worry too much about me.
How much longer do you think you’ll do what you’re doing now, and what are your plans for when you quit? If you’ve already left, what made you decide to leave and what did you decide to do for work when you left?
I don’t know, currently I’d like to do this as long as possible. I have a good ongoing education and I want to work in the field I’m studying, but alongside that still be escorting. I sometimes think about going into professional domination, but then again some things there make me uncomfortable just thinking about it. I’d prefer to be a “soft” domme.
If you had to go back and tell your younger self (mid to late teens) that you’d be doing what you’re doing now (assuming you’re still working in the sex industry), what do you think your younger self would say about it?
“Oh my god!..Nice.”
What advice would you give someone who was looking to get into your line of sex work?
If you want to work with an agency, look for one that treats you well and doesn’t rip you off too much. Do it only if you have a positive attitude to sex (also without love) and a stable mind.
Sinamore’s Personal Blog: Sinamore
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Nice success story. I believe however that you sort of equated being a nympho with being psychologically disabled. I am a man so I cannot speak from personal experience but my opinion of a Woman who is a nympho is that she is not at all psychologically disabled but is simply who she was born to be. Nothing more, nothing less. Just wanted to raise that point.
As I have understood it, being a nymphomaniac is not the same as having a high sex drive. Whereas a high libido is something one’s born with or just hormonally influenced/whatever, nymphomania is a psychological disortion which can disables one from being able to live one’s life because of a pathological obsession with sex. It’s been misused to label females with a healthy sex drive as pathological since female sexuality has often been condemned. If I’m wrong, anyone feel free to help my knowledge:-)
Sinamore, You are exactly right about the mis labeling.
even being someone who can be is extremely satisfied during sex and able to have fantastic orgasms even working I have been asked if I am a nympho or it has been said that I was a nympho, meaning that I derive pleasure from sex as being a nympho.